The purpose of the current paper is to 1) propose the Wakin-Vo I.D.R model of limerence and 2) establish grounds for the scientific query of limerence. Limerence is an involuntary interpersonal state that involves intrusive, obsessive, and compulsive thoughts, feelings, and behaviors that are contingent on perceived emotional reciprocation from the object of interest. The model that the authors propose holds that although limerence resembles normative love, it is a state that is necessarily negative, problematic, and impairing, with clinical implications. The model frames limerence as consisting of three functional components: initiating force, driving forces, and resultant forces. Parallels between limerence and substance dependence, and obsessive compulsive disorder are drawn. Rationales are posited to warrant the authors’ suggestions for future scientific investigation of limerence.
Wakin, A., & Vo, D. B. (2008). Love-variant: The Wakin-Vo I. D. R. model of limerence. Inter-Disciplinary – Net. 2nd Global Conference; Challenging Intimate Boundaries. Retrieved 13 February 2019.